Second dates were rare, third dates were once in a blue moon, and fourth dates were non-existent. You can probably see where I am going with this.
Your husband should be willing to answer questions whenever you have them and over and over again. Following the disclosure, set a rule with your husband that you are entitled to ask about his whereabouts and proof of them at any time. Although it is not healthy for you to make a full-time job of monitoring your husband and won't do any good as of way of controlling his behaviorthere will be times when life presents a circumstance where you will be uncertain of his truthfulness. Outcall Atherton